Home is Where We Prepare for God’s Purposes

I still remember standing in the kitchen of our basement apartment in Lynchburg, VA, washing dishes. It was a small, cozy 1-bedroom, 1-bathroom apartment. It had old wood paneling and a refrigerator from the 1950’s. My husband and I spent almost 2 years there, and I believe it truly was a “nest” for ministry training 101.

Although we both had college degrees and pretty good jobs right after graduating college, we prayerfully stepped away from those jobs to serve in our local church and use our gifts of creating music. We trusted God to provide for our needs.

He did so, mainly through the generosity of family, friends, and sometimes strangers. We kept a log of it in a journal; we called it “The Book of Faith”. Those were humbling times, but we know they were times meant for building a foundation in our marriage. We hadn’t been married long, but even then, I knew there were going to be some (ahem) adventures of faith in our future.

As I washed the dishes in that apartment, I imagined doing the same thing in another country. We were already praying and dreaming about becoming missionaries in Africa. At that time, I didn’t know that we’d go to Haiti first, but I was open and willing to the possibilities. To me, hand washing those dishes with no “dishwasher” in the apartment seemed like such a dreamy preparation for daily life in another culture.

Home is Where We Grow

Fast forward a few years, and we are in an apartment in the States again. This time in Charleston, South Carolina, and we have a dishwasher for the first time in a long time. “They’rrrrre GRRRRReAT!” (In my Tony the Tiger voice).

Now as I wash dishes here, I have a seriously deep level of gratitude and delight in the efficiency I get to partake in. I mean, I load that thing with dishes and it’s a-mazing! I know it’s silly, but after over a year of living in Haiti, house chores in America aren’t as stressful as they once were.

In between the apartment in Lynchburg and this apartment, we’ve had more “homes” than I would have ever imagined when we first got married. Each placed we’ve lived has been unique, but it has always taken time before it really felt like home.

I’m not sure if it’s nostalgia from being a little girl, but curling up on the couch in my PJ’s makes me feel like I’m home. Drinking a cup of tea on my bed feels like home. Seeing everything clean and put away says “home” to me. Reading a book or listening to music feels like home. Having friends or family over for a meal is home.

Home is Where the Holy Spirit Teaches Us

There is that mixture of peace, relief, security, satisfaction, and joy when we are “home”.

I’ve felt it in apartments, townhouses, large houses, and small houses. I’ve felt it in the U.S. and in Haiti. This quote sums up what I believe the Spirit was speaking to me about home.

“Home is being in the space that God has placed us for the purposes of Jesus Christ with His Holy Spirit filling us and that space with the people He’s divinely appointed us to at a certain point in time.”

I’ve had times where I longed for “homes” of the past with loved ones of the past. Especially during difficulties of the present. But, the reminder of that definition of home is a great encouragement to me, and I hope it is to you as well.

Home is in the Future for Eternity With Jesus

That sigh of relief we feel at home points to our eternal home. That warm and cozy feeling we get is but a shadow of the forever “sigh of relief” we will experience in God’s Glorious Home.

John 14:1-3 (AMP) “Do not let your heart be troubled (afraid, cowardly). Believe [confidently] in God and trust in Him, [have faith, hold on to it, rely on it, keep going and] believe also in Me. In My Father’s house are many dwelling places. If it were not so, I would have told you, because I am going there to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back again and I will take you to Myself, so that where I am you may be also.

Jesus is Our Home

It’s like Jesus knew the disciples would need reassurance after He left. I love that the title of this passage is Jesus Comforts the Disciples. I imagine they felt “at home” with their Master, Savior, and Friend. They were together through a lot of joys, miracles and sorrows. Jesus knew they would need encouragement and I believe He knows we need it too.

Maybe you’re struggling at home right now, or maybe you are longing for a home in the future or missing one from the past.

Then this is for you and for me. We can always snuggle up with Jesus. Seriously. Get away and tell Him what hurts. He can heal it. Tell Him what you need. He can provide it. He is home.

What does home mean to you? How does knowing Jesus is preparing a home for us give you hope in present circumstances?

Talk to me in the comments below!

And please be sure to share this article with someone who could use some encouragement today!

Stay Radiant, Stay Beautiful!

2 thoughts on “Home is Where the Heart Is

  1. This is just beautiful! Very touching! I think everyone at one point or another feels this ache…I do believe it is an ache created for the Creator, by the Creator, because He wants us to find “home” in Him. Thank you for sharing your heart and the encouragement and wisdom that God has given to you. <3

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